Most Guys nowadays are mostly unpredictable and with s3.x being the main fulcrum around which most of them initiate a romantic relationship, this story herein reinforces why a man can do anything just for intimacy.
Most of the time when a guy or man delays in requesting for s3..x in a relationship for let say six months or beyond, many consider him as ‘an ideal partner who is looking for a long term relationship.’ This is why this particular woman’s story which went contrary to this maxim has sparked wild reactions online.
Today’s story was shared by a TikTok user with the handle @jehonaswitness and she boldly revealed how he had a relationship with a guy for a year and just two weeks after they first had sex, he dumped her saying he has someone already.
“I matched with this guy on Bumble in May 2020 and we [clicked] right away, he immediately got too comfortable and trauma dumped on me in the first two hours. “He asked me out and I politely declined telling him to take some time to work on himself first. We decide to be friends and text and FaceTime almost everyday for 1.5 years. “He’s always telling me how much he likes me and wants to be with me, how well he would treat me and how happy he could make me.”
After Realizing she likes him more than she initially thought, the girl continued:
“I start catching feelings and get jealous when he talks about other girls so I finally tell him that bothers me and he says if I gave him a chance he wouldn’t have to date anyone else. “I finally decide to face my fears and give him a chance, anticipating the best relationship of my life since we’ve spent so much time building an emotional connection.” “2 weeks after we get *intimate*, he drunk calls me and tells me he doesn’t like me, he never cared about me and is having seggs with someone else.”
This story has left people “shocked”, with hundreds commenting on the girl’s post.
“That story turned horrible quickly! What I’m still shocked!! Girl I’m so sorry,” said one person.
Another wrote: “The moral of the story… trust your intuition unilaterally.”
A third commented: “He was playing the long game from the beginning. I’m never gonna look past that first early trauma dump red flag ever again.”
Others couldn’t believe how long the guy had grafted for, with one person posting: “A year and a half?! He was committed…”
“Bro played the long game,” joked another, while one more added: “This dude put in WORK.”